Reif Cotter: A Loving Father and Beloved Teammate Remembered
Tragedy struck the community of Napier on Friday when a man fell off the top of a car and lost his life. The man, identified as Reif Cotter, was travelling on a mattress on the roof of a station wagon from the Marewa shops when the unfortunate incident occurred on Nuffield Avenue. Cotter, a loving father and beloved teammate, leaves behind his wife Holly Te Ngahue and three young children.
A Life Remembered
Family and friends have taken to social media to honor Cotter’s memory, describing him as a devoted father, brother, son, and moko. Holly Te Ngahue, the children’s mother, shared a heartfelt tribute on Facebook, reminiscing about Cotter’s infectious smile, generous spirit, and lively presence at every gathering. The community has rallied around the family, setting up a Givealittle page to support Holly and the children during this difficult time.
A Community in Mourning
Cotter’s unexpected and tragic death has deeply impacted those who knew him, especially his fellow teammates at the Eskview and Districts Ruby Football Club. Known for his skills on the field as a talented winger, Cotter was more than just a player; he was a source of joy and positivity for everyone around him. The Club’s Facebook page was flooded with messages of love and remembrance for Cotter, highlighting his contagious smile that could light up any room.
Moving Forward
As the community prepares to say their final goodbyes, plans are underway for a service at the Eskview Rugby Clubrooms to honor Cotter’s life. The family is grateful for the outpouring of support and generosity from friends, teammates, and well-wishers during this challenging time. Donations to the Givealittle page will help ensure that Holly and the children can adjust to their new reality and continue to cherish the memories of their beloved father and husband.
In the midst of this tragedy, one thing remains clear: Reif Cotter’s legacy of love, laughter, and kindness will forever be remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing him.