Etiquette Guide: How to Respectfully Ask About Someone’s Disability
When it comes to interacting with individuals with disabilities, there is often a fine line between curiosity and respect. Journalist Olivia Shivas, a wheelchair user and editor of The D*List magazine, sheds light on the nuances of asking about someone’s disability respectfully.
Understanding the Impact of Questions
Shivas emphasizes the importance of considering the individual’s perspective when asking about their disability. While some may be open to discussing their experiences, others may find it triggering or uncomfortable. She advises getting to know the person first before delving into sensitive topics, allowing the conversation to flow naturally.
Breaking Barriers Through Storytelling
In a candid podcast titled “What’s Wrong With You?”, Shivas and her friends engage in conversations with members of New Zealand’s disability community, addressing common misconceptions and sharing personal stories. The D*List magazine, founded in 2023, serves as a platform for individuals to express their thoughts, experiences, and emotions surrounding disability, fostering a sense of community and understanding.
Celebrating Disability Culture
Through The D*List, individuals can explore topics such as dating, navigating relationships, and finding joy in everyday experiences. Shivas highlights the importance of representation and empowerment within the disability community, advocating for a shift away from paternalistic attitudes towards a more inclusive and supportive environment.
As a member of the disability community herself, Shivas brings a unique perspective to the conversation, encouraging others to embrace their stories and celebrate their identities. By promoting dialogue, empathy, and connection, The D*List magazine aims to challenge stereotypes, inspire change, and create a more inclusive society for all.